
Try living in another country. We spent three wonderful years in England, where gas was right around the $5/gal USD mark.
Brits drive more fuel efficient cars to begin with. You won't find many gas guzzlers for sale on the car lots. When we were there, there were lots of Mini Coopers (the ORIGINAL ones!), small cars and some very cool three-wheeled cars. We had an American minivan and an Austin Montego (British). The minivan made us look like Americans - or delivery persons.
In addition to higher fuel prices, Brits pay FAR higher income taxes - 40% at our income level, an exhorbitant sales tax called VAT between 17.5 and 21%, and families must purchase a semi-annual or annual television license. B/W television cost $50-60 USD and color television ran nearly $200 USD. It is a criminal offense to operate a television in Britain with out a license. If you are found guilty, the fine is about $3000 USD.
Brits don't indulge in many of the luxuries Americans take for granted. A holiday (vacation) is a bigger deal in the UK than it is in America. Little gadgets such as fancy radios, GPS, home computers are (or were) rarities. Expensive shoes (like sneakers) would never be purchased for most children, let alone logo apparel. Kids wear uniform to school. Clothing is generally less expensive and much better made - a super value. Of course there are some more well-to-do families who certainly indulge in electronic gadgets, designer duds, and large fuel-hungry vehicles - we never met any of those families... The folks we knew would a whole lot rather have friends to a meal in their homes than almost anything else.
Luxury can be a subjective notion, however. One cheap 'luxury' I enjoyed in the UK was home delivery of milk (and other dairy items). It didn't cost me any more than running to the shops and the nice milkman came long in his electric float 3 times a week with fresh milk (in glass bottles), yogurt, cream, butter, bread, and ocassionally ice cream. I felt like a princess. It had been a VERY long time since we'd had a milkman in our US hometown!
A difference in priorities... So the next time you feel the urge to complain about how much it's costing you to jump into your car and drive to the mall for a day of unbridled spending, give a thought to our friends overseas whose governments don't have the leveraging power to talk the price of oil down... Stay home and invite some friends for lunch instead.